The student shuffled uneasily.
Then the master said, “Imagine that you are traveling down a road and come to a rock which blocks your path. Which is better, to remove the rock or to go around it?”
“It depends” replied the student. If I traveled the path often, it would be best to remove the rock. But if I was passing that way just the one time, it would be more expedient to go around it. At the same time, if it was a small rock and easy to remove, then it would be best to move the rock in either case.”
“And this issue with your fellow student: is it a small rock or a large rock?” asked the master.
“It is a rather large rock,” answered the student.
“And your relationship with him: is it a path you travel often?”
“Yes,” said the student.
“Best to remove the rock then,” said the master.
